Photographs…

hey guys, well after a long time I’m posting post actually the these are the photographs of the birthday cake which was bought for my small sis whose birthday was on 6th January and the photographs were clicked by me but the second one is bit blur.

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Award…😍😍😍

How lovely the Sun shines upon one and all to arouse a sentimental play at the gallery of goal setting.

It is with great joy that I received this exciting news – being the first time I’ve been nominated – and from a blog entitled Ernest H. Abhinokhauno that has always charged my brain nerves with many of thoughts and writeups about life, motivating me to hang around the shadows of fantasies, to ponder over the past; while staring at the future to appreciate the present. I am very thankful to him for considering me worthy of this recognition, The Sunshine Blogger Award.

What is the Sunshine Blogger Award ?
The Sunshine Blogger Award is given to those who are creative, positive and inspiring, while spreading sunshine to the blogging community.

In the heightened state of the joy that I feel over this award; despite being a blogger who’s relatively new to the scene, and with the philosophy around the contents that I create – to build self confidence towards actual feelings of fear and mind and hoping to excel in the arena of creativity through the power of abstract reasoning – I am puzzled that my concept is considered fit for this nomination. As I think of how the Sun shines graciously upon one and all to arouse a sentimental play at the gallery of goal setting, I see this award giving me the opportunity to show all the bloggers that have been supporting my site as well as the general public the deep essence of impacting the world generously.

The Sunshine Blogger Award Rules.

1. Thank the blogger who nominated you and provide a link to their blog — done
2. List the rules and display an award logo on your blog post — done.
3. Answer the 11 questions the blogger asked you — done.
4. Nominate 11 new blogs to receive the award and notify them by commenting on any of their blog posts — done.
5. Ask the nominees 11 new questions — done.

Answer to the questions.

1. What is the meaning of your name? The meaning of my name is Lamp.
2. What is your country of birth? I was in Kanpur, India.
3. Do you believe in God? Not that much. But even upto a limit.
4. What is your religious affiliation? I’m or a Hindu religion but I don’t differentiate myself with religion because we all are one only.
5. Are you a Republican or Democrat? I’m both or them.
6. What is your weakness? I don’t have one particular weakness there is a list of that my first weakness is music another one is chocolates and next is my love next is my life list of that so I can’t list them right now.
7. What do you prefer – fiction or nonfiction or both? Some of the times both of them and some times nonfiction.
8. What kind of blogs inspire you? Motivational blogs that are related to life and dreams.
9. If you can change one thing in this world, what would that be? The difference that is created because of the religion caste and just because of that only the difference is created in the dreams.
10. What would you like to see in a place you call a home? I would not like to see anything else in place of my home because that is a heaven for me.
11. What do you feel about receiving an award on WordPress? I really feel that it’s a dream or its reality just get confused because and never got that in any of my field and just because of that only I feel myself that yes I am a very stupid girl that I am thinking that it’s fake as its reality so I become very happy after seeing that I have been nominated for an award and becomes some of the time speechless regarding that.

Same question is for all of my nominees so my nominees are:

1. inspiration to reality – articulating exceptional contents to make a difference in a world of inspiration to reality.
2. JustCallMeTaco – demystifying anxiety, pain, self-harm, addiction, and reality.
3. Never Stop #Rukna Nahi – articulating a passion to guide and motivate.
4. Lee Cleaver – awakening inspirations towards mental health and positivity.
5. Vers Libre – creating motivational contents on 21stceturygrio, alchemyofprosody and curiousconjurings.
6. Investingmoney.in – awakening inspirations towards investing in share market blog and getting monthly fixed passive income.
7. Golu lodhi – awakening inspirations towards motivational snapshots; upload photos Golu lodhi.
8. Tanusri sen- ❤❤
9. Success inspires world- truth and facts.
10. The Divine Voice for Women – inspiring and motivating women of all ages.

Thank you so much for nominating me for this award and thanks for showing love support and everything that I needed from all of you and yes you all give me too so really thank you so much from the depth of my heart and have a great day ahead.

Hunger…

“Mumma I am hungry, I want food, I want something to eat that can fill my stomach.” When we are hungry we actually say these words to our mother and we actually need to say this otherwise we will not get the food.Those who live alone they have to prepare their food by their own but one thing that we have to prepare by our own is the goal of our dreams, be hungry for your dream become giant hungry person who only things off eating something and in place of eating anything become a person who is hungry for reaching to the goal I am not saying that cross those limits which are made for reaching to your goal just cross those all things that are stopping you to reach to your goal.

Happy Diwali

Few of the photographs click by me on occasion of Diwali which is a very beautiful and lightning festival in India.

I hope you will like this photos and if you are on Instagram then do follow me on it with @eyesnapwith in which does a photo of very small pot with a fire lightning on it and few photographs are there with one of my photo in a collage with the red pink check dress

Please come there and follow me for increasing the level of confidence for photography inside me.

Its me…

“Hey, nice to meet you. The way you motivate others, I don’t think that you would have faced any problem. Really sis, you are a very strong girl.” Thank you so much everyone for observing and saying this to me. But I’m sorry, because that’s not the truth about me, because I’m like you people only. Don’t make me different don’t make me odd one out.

I’m a human like everyone, I also feel bad when someone says bad to me, I also feel scared when I’m alone. I’m like you all. I don’t express my feelings, I don’t show that what I’m from inside, I try to show that which can actually make others feel happy. I have faced problems but now i don’t want you all to face problems.

The way you all treat yourself is the way that shows yes you have a control on yourself, yes you know what are in need or at present. But one thing that you need to keep in your mind is people learn something new through observation, through observing others and if you are sad then they’ll become sad. If you are strong then they are strong.

Try to become a strong root then only your branches will be strong and fruits will give taste to life.

Go ahead guys and become an example.

story

“नजरें मिलने को तैयार थी

पर हम मिला नहीं पा रहे थे

कदम मिलने को तैयार थे

पर हम मिला नहीं पा रहे थे”

मैं अपने काम में व्यस्त थी और वो अपने काम में व्यस्त था| दोनों को कोई मतलब नहीं था एक दूसरे से| मैं बहुत बार मन ही मन गुजारिश करती थी कि वह मेरी तरफ एक बार बस एक बार देख ले पर देखता ही नहीं था| लेकिन कुछ था जो मेरी नजरों को उसी तरफ देखने को मजबूर करता था| मैं जब भी उसकी तरफ देखती तो उसकी नजरें कभी किताब की तरह तो कभी कंप्यूटर की तरफ होती थी| “गाड़ियों का शौक रखने वाला यह बंदा कहां है जॉब में आ गया” मैं यही सोचती रहती थी| जब भी कोई बात करता था तो उसकी तरफ जरूर देखता था, पर जब मै बात करती थी तू मेरी तरफ नहीं देखता था| मैं समय निकालकर उससे बात करने जाती थी तो थोड़ी देर ही सही पर बात करने के बाद अच्छा लगता था| जब बात नहीं होती थी तो मेरे मन में एक सवाल आता था “कभी बात हुई थी हमारी?” पर इसका जवाब मुझे नहीं मिल पाता था| वक्त का सफर हमारे बीच कितना लंबा था और कितना लंबा होना था मुझे पता नहीं था| बस एक हद तक उसका इंतजार किया और फिर उस इंतजार का भी इंतजार छोड़ दिया|

तारीख याद नहीं मुझको कि कब हमारी पहली बार बात हुई थी पर इतना जरूर मालूम है कि क्या बात हुई थी| “मुझे घर जाना है, आपकी अनुमति चाहिए|” मेरी तरफ देख कर मुझसे पूछने लगा “क्यों जाना है? क्या हुआ है? उसके सवाल पूछने पर मुझे ऐसा लगा कि वह कुछ और बताना चाह रहा था पर शायद मेरा वहम था| उसको मैंने घर जाने का कारण बताया “मैं पढ़ाती हूं ना तो इसलिए मुझे घर जाना है”, मुझे अनुमति तो मिल गई थी पर सवालों की कड़ियां भी खड़ी हो गई थी| “क्या पढ़ाती हो? किस क्लास को पढ़ाती हो? कितना लेती हो? सवाल सुनकर थोड़ा कंफ्यूज हो गई थी कि बोलूं तो बोलूं क्या? एक तो सवाल क्या था दूसरे सवाल पूछने वाला कौन था, जिसके सामने आसानी से बोल नहीं पाती थी| फिर भी पूरी कोशिश के साथ मैंने उन सवालों का जवाब दिया और वहां से जाने लगी| पर फिर मुझसे मेरा नंबर मांगा गया| मेरा मन मुझसे पूछने लगा कि “सुबह-सुबह आज कुछ हुआ था क्या तुम्हारे साथ जो आज तुम्हारे मन का हो रहा है? खुशी तो बहुत हो रही थी पर जाहिर नहीं कर पा रही थी| हमारे नंबरों की अदला बदली हो गई थी और मैं तो मानो मन ही मन पागल हो रही थी| कुछ दिन बाद मेरे पास एक अनजान नंबर से मेरी तस्वीर के लिए संदेश आता है| चेक करने पर उसी का नंबर निकलता है| एक दोस्त के नाते मैंने उसको रिप्लाई भी किया पर मेरी हंसी रुकने का नाम नहीं ले रही थी| क्योंकि मैं बहुत खुश थी| धीरे-धीरे हमारी बातों का सिलसिला बढ़ता गया और वह कब मन के खेल में तब्दील हुआ पता ही नहीं चला| सुबह से शाम तक भले ही कम बात होती थी लेकिन वह भी बहुत सुकून दिला जाती थीी| भले ही हम अपने-अपने कामों में व्यस्त रहते थे पर शायद एक दूसरे के बारे में सोचते थे| एक दिन, मौसम बहुत खराब था, बारिश होने वाली थी मुझसे बोला गया कि मैं घर चली जाऊं| सुनकर अच्छा तो नहीं लगा था पर दोस्तों के साथ घर चली गई| मैंने घर जाकर उससे सवाल पूछा कि “आज आपने अचानक से घर जाने को क्यों बोला?” उसका जवाब सुन हैरान हो गई थी और थोड़ी कंफ्यूज भी हो गई थी इसमें हंसू या रोउं| उसने जवाब दिया कि “मौसम बहुत ज्यादा खराब था, बारिश में भीग जाती तो बीमार पड़ जाती|” शायद वह फिक्र थी पर मैं समझ नहीं पा रही थी|

“लबों पर लिखी बातों का वक्त पर इजहार करो दिल में कुछ हो तो खुलकर बात करो”

वक्त कैसे निकल जाता है पता ही नहीं चलता| हमारे बीच उम्र का फासला तो था पर नजर नहीं आता था| पता नहीं क्यों पर हमारी बातों का दायरा कम होने लगा| वह अपने काम में पूरी तरह लीन हो गया था और मैं अपने काम| फिर भी मुझे उसका कुछ वक्त चाहिए जो वो नहीं समझ पा रहा था| हमारी बातों का सिलसिला बहुत जल्दी खत्म हो गया था| मुझे अच्छा नहीं लगता था लेकिन इस मन को भी हटाना था| इसके लिए मैंने अपने आप को केवल पंद्रह मिनट दिए और जो मुझे समझ आया शायद आप लोगों को भी समझ में आ गया होगा|

“किसी को उतना ही वक्त दो

जितना उसको चाहिए

ज्यादा जिद करोगे तो दर्द खुद को होगा सामने वाले का कुछ नहीं बिगड़ेगा”

किसी को देख मन का पागल होना, विचारों का अचानक से आ जाना “उससे बात हो जाए, एक बार बात हो जाए कितना, स्मार्ट है यार” मन का खेल होता है| आज भी हमारी बात होती है ख़ुशी भी उतनी ही मिलती है| पर उस खुशी को काबू में रखती हूं क्योंकि मन का तो खेल है मन से खेलना|

Good and Great….

We should not judge anyone so quickly, but when we judge we say, that person is a good one and that is a great person. Do we actually mean it what we say? Do we actually know the meaning of difference between good and great? Do we? No, i don’t think so, because people only say it they don’t mean it.

A good person looks the ability to win the game, looks for the chances how that game can be won easily and a great person looks for the chances of how to win the heart of people? How to get in touch with people with heart? Because if you won the heart then you won the game. No, please don’t start thinking about the play person. Person should be great not good.

Now, you have to find the way to win the heart of people then of becoming a great person. And this is not possible by sitting, this is possible by moving, thinking, keeping yourself alert.

Stuck…

Everyday we have a plan, what we need to do? What we need to achieve today? Something new? Challenging? And many more questions our mind keeps in front of us, but we sometimes just ignore it, why? Why do we ignore it? Because we are not getting results from that? Or, we don’t want any results? Our mind says no when it sees us on a track of “fail”. But why it comes to our mind?

When you join a gym then you expect that you’ll get fit soon, but after a few days, after a week and after a month when no results are seen then we just leave it. Because we don’t have patience. We just need to get stuck to our own decisions, whether its wrong or right, you’ll not choose that.

You want to be a singer, get stuck to your decision, you want to be a dancer, get stuck to your decision, you want to be an officer, get stuck to your decision, just get stuck to that what you want.

If you are not able to reach to your stage, then just take your steps, actions back and take a long jump like a lion because never forget that, if the lion retreated its steps, then it doesn’t mean that the lion is afraid, steps are taken to take a long jump to reach its aim easily.

Be a fighter, be a lion, become a winner.

No End…

We need to work hard, we need try hard, we need to do this, we need to do that and don’t know, so on. We all know that when we start a work or continue in a work then we need to face problems but do those problems really have a ending point? I think that the answer is no, because a problem never ends, the way can be changed but it can’t be changed.

Family problem, education problem, society problem, relationship problems, and many more and these problems never ends up, just keep on going like they are going. But never stay back because of these problems.

You can’t be fighter until and unless you fight with those problems who never say yes to end but you need to say yes to end the problems…

Start your fight now…

Girl…

Today the mother wore a red frock to the daughter

She has also taken eyes by applying mascara

But don’t know why mother is nervous today

When girl started arguing for playing outside

Things have also been explained, but a 6 year old girl, was worldly

It was understood that she was out of the house laughing

She was unaware of the storm coming to destroy her life

Her innocent laughter, her body, the lust that came down into the eyes of someone

Are laid it many traps to be managed

No chocolate no toffee now she only remembers the points given by her mother

Fought a lot, screamed a lot, but a small life has been won by a middle aged man

When he broke the thread of his body,

She cried a lot and loud and led the angels and the earth left in pain

She was now feeling ashamed to be born in this world

Was she wearing small clothes or she provoked anyone to do that

But then also all the negatives thoughts are thrown on women

Why women are not happy? Why innocent girls are crying?

Why are the girls are not safe?

Why? Why the number of Nirbhya and Asifa are increasing?

Why?

Credit goes to Jyoti Singh who wrote this poem in Hindi and made everyone cry.